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Birthdays to me are far beyond being mere annual milestones, it holds a profound significance in my life. It serves as a powerful reminder of my journey, growth and the connections I forge with others. 

As a minimalist, birthdays are a unique opportunity to embrace the essence of existence, to celebrate the beauty of simplicity and to cultivate deeper connections with loved ones. By stripping away the superficial expectations imposed by society, minimalism helps me reshape the meaning of birthdays, transforming them into occasions of heartfelt connection, introspection and appreciation for the intangible joys that life has to offer. 

In doing these, I unlock a realm of genuine celebration that transcends material possessions and leaves a lasting imprint on my heart and soul.

Birthdays can indeed be stressful as the focus on material gifts and extravagant celebrations which often contradicts the minimalist values of simplicity and mindful consumption. I have traits that help me ensure my special day stays in line with my minimalist values and my loved ones respect it because I communicate my wishes and expectations with them. I love gifting people and also love receiving gifts too but in a situation where these gifts are unavailable, a good time with loved ones goes a long way.

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<sup>last years birthday cake</sup>

**An alternative way to celebrate.**

I grew to embrace simplicity in celebrating my own birthday. Last month, when I was facing financial constraints, I chose not to fret about the absence of a birthday cake or fret about not being able to blow out a candle just to make a little wish. Instead, I focused on writing poems to myself, enjoying music and basking in the love and support of my friends and family. This experience taught me that the essence of a birthday celebration lies in the joy, gratitude and connection we feel rather than the material trappings.

I do tell my friends that instead of trying so hard to exchange physical gifts even when they know their pockets aren't in good shape , they should rather engage in activities that create lasting memories. What works for me on my day if I'm not financially able to take myself out or get myself an enchanting gift is writing myself a befitting birthday poem, dancing or simply spending quality time with loved ones available. All of these hits differently especially when the day is mine.

I prioritize open communication, shared experiences, thoughtfulness and simplicity to align my birthday celebrations with my values. With the understanding and respect of my loved ones, I have found that my special day can be fulfilling and meaningful even without the traditional trappings of excessive gifts and lavish parties(never had one, don't intend on having one except on my 60th birthday).

**Just some lines  of the poem I wrote on my birthday**

>In the journey of life, two decades and three years ago a baby girl cried her way to this world.
It's been crying and smiling ever since.
I celebrate you in a heartfelt way.

>As the sun rises, a year older, a year wiser,
May your path be adorned with blessings, no less.

>Oh, how time has flown, like a gentle breeze,
And in its wake, a soul nurtured with ease.
Through highs and lows, you've learned and grown,
With God's grace, a beauty uniquely your own.



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