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What do you really want in life? I think all of us asked ourselves that question at one point in time. And there's not an easy answer to it in my opinion.

Most don’t even find out what they want and desire in life until it’s too late for them,  and that’s a shame.

They spend the best years of their lives watching TV, endulging in their vices and doing things they dislike (spend hours at a shitty job for example). There's a known quote that goes something like this: “Most people die at twenty and are buried at eighty.” That begs the question, Are you one of them?

**What do you want?**

A lot of people struggle with that question and they have no answer to it. Heck, I had no answer for it in the longest time. 

People are uncertain in their decisions, they hardly give any thought about what they want in life, how they are going to get there and so forth. 

If you are uncertain about what you want in life, then don't worry.  There are dozens of ways to discover your purpose in life.

Try some introspection, get to know yourself and things will become a lot clearer to you. 

Oftentimes people live by what they think they should do or by what others like them to do (friends, teachers, family). The introspection process however, is the perfect time to listen to yourself. 

What you desire comes from the inside of your authentic self i.e. the real you.

Dig deep and spend some time with your thoughts, alone. Only then you will be able to listen to your real self. 

What you desire is what you usually love to do and this represents your passion and anything done with passion is like playing a game where the tasks are accomplished without hesitation. You pour out your very best and feel no pressure or resistance. 

Setbacks, difficulties, and obstacles will make it more challenging, but should not deter you from pursuing your goals, it's a part of life and all these things contribute to a more sophisticated and stronger YOU. 

Naturally, there may be barriers that may prevent you from reaching your goal, but your heart’s desire will find ways to overcome these barriers so that you may ultimately get what you want in life. 

Remember this: The world supports people who are taking action and follow what their true self desires.

Listen to your instincts. Stay true to yourself. Become self-aware and take action, that in essence is all you need to find out what you want and then go after it. 

There is only thing to remember: Every person, to live truly and greatly, must define how he wants to live. Listen to your instincts and follow the desire of your true self. 

Thanks for reading as always and I hope you enjoyed this article. 

Until next time,

-Titus Hauer