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***My hubby and I***

Marriage is beautiful and amazing is not all about the physical but spiritual and emotional. The notion of forever bonding together is what I love the most about marriage before I got married I was scared of getting married because of the happening of things around...the abuse, divorce, fighting and many more I keep rejecting suitors at a time my family started asking loveth what is wrong with you? Hubby helped me to overcome those fears in marriage, because My fear for marriage beclouded the positive and beautiful things about marriage so when I made up my mind to get married among all my suitors hubby is the best he have most of the qualities I want in a man... He's patient, loving, caring, Godly, supportive, hardworking, he listens to me even when I'm saying nonsense he still gives me a listening ear hahaha hubby is not a womanizer, what more could I want from a man with all this qualities I couldn't refuse him I said yes to him lol. 

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***My husband and I***

In most cases in dating singles depends more on red flags, it works sometimes but not always so because people pretend to be what they are not... you only see the true nature of that person in marriage. In relationships You can't understand or know everything about a man or a woman, there is always some changes in marriage may be little or more, there are people who dated for 10years and still have a failed marriage or haven't you heard of people who say he or she wasn't like that when we were dating.
Most people are scared to commit to each other...they Wondered how can I stay with someone forever and tolerate their excesses? I once asked my auntie this question before I got married, is it possible in marriage for one not to love their spouse again? And she said **YES!** I was surprised how can a spouse you once love become someone you no longer have feelings for, to me that's ironic how possible can that be! I don't want to ever be in that situation. Sometimes people say love isn't enough for marriage there are Many things attached to it that makes it work like patient, love, support, forgiveness, tolerance and care. 
A kindly advise, Please if you are not a patient type don't even think of starting this journey called marriage because you will need alot of it when necessary infact wear it like a clothe if you want a peaceful and a happy marriage.  
Trust me most people are deceived by beautiful happy wedding pictures of forever together hahaha and you see many so eager to settle down or to get married, some ladies don't even mind of who they want to settle down with, or what kind of person is he? All they care about is money...that notion to marry a rich man that will make everything perfect, money or wealth is not a guarantee for a happy marriage. People who live a luxurious lifestyle after marriage or people who have it all and all in marriage be it cars, houses, businesses and many more 80 percent of them are not truly happy. Another important fundamental truth about marriage especially for the ladies is submission allowing the husbands to exercise their authority as the head of the home.
Another fundamental truth or principle about marriage is forgiveness, both of you will wrong each other... you just have to forgive and let go of the past and move on with your beautiful phrase of marriage. don't let undealt issues ruin your happy home. Apologize when at fault even when you re not at fault learn to say sorry don't let it linger for too long or wait for who will be the first to say sorry.
Most problems that are cause in marriages today is due to money...women you don't need to depend on your husband for everything he mustn't grant all your needs, Women We are support system a helper...we can also work to help out when needed and husbands is not the role of a wife to provide for the family don't make it as her duty...
The house chores are not meant for women alone the men can help out too.
Spent time with each other go out bond together and create beautiful memories together, meet each other's need and rekindle that love. With love, care and understanding you two can solve any problems or challenges together and most especially respect each other.
Misunderstandings will come don't be afraid, is the process of knowing each other's more.

**Please don't be carried away by the beautiful wedding pictures of marriage is not a necessity for a perfect union,** **please be guided.** 

**Marriage is beautiful you don't need to be afraid,** **marry right and enjoy a blissful home forever!**