![man-jump-16144289.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmYBdHsn3PufNRZyYx6ykHCpyWDyGvE9ozC4kWEh8BDgxK/man-jump-16144289.jpg)Life on its own is a battle ground full of struggles and challenges, but for you to  survive  in life you must fight and win the battles  of life,  do you  really at any point  suppose to accept  defeat as an option  for  yourself?  I think  no should be  your  answer,  when you accept  defeat  it simply means  giving up  on yourself, agreeing  to become the least of whatever you are created to become, it means  that you have decided to bear loser as your  emblem,  it means that you have accepted that success is not for you, it also means you have perceive yourself as a weakling Who does not  possess what it takes to become a winner. But is this  really how bad you think of yourself?  I am absolutely sure that it is never. 
"Quitters never win  or a quitter can never be a winner " this is a wise saying that defines life in a layman's understanding, often times you  quit or accept defeat because you  are captured in the web of 
 * fear 
 * lack of self confidence 
 * low self-esteem 
 * family background jink 
 * environmental limitations. 
 Wow,  but are all this points worth stopping you from becoming  what you a crafted to be?  Thomas Alva Edison who invented the first  electric bulb failed  severally before  breaking through. 
  To be  victorious over the  battles of life you must see fear as an enemy who is out to scare you away from winning. I am sure that if you are dog phobia,  you will  certainly  face a dog  that is about to kill your child, yes you will  manifest courage to face your fear, just  that is what you need to  overcome fear.
 Do you really  lack confidence?  I don't think so, it is just that you are  yet to discover that  there is a you full of confidence, or maybe  your past failures  is scaring you  from trying  again,  maybe you are fed-up and do not want to  fail again,  but let me quickly remind  you that  failures are learning grounds  full of lectures  on how to go about your next trials in dynamic ways and  styles. ![images (2).jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmRRiKnhUT4izxQBnC1rASduUGEZApWE8LW8mEx4AXKvL4/images%20(2).jpg)
  Why do you think that you are inferior and less than others, why do you think you cannot win just the way you are?  It is because you have not seen the  peculiarities of who you are,  I want to  remind you that  there is only one kind of you in the  whole world  and there is  a very good reason  why God made you the way you are,  it is because  there is a problem  that it is only  you can solve. I want to  admonish you  to start henceforth see yourself as a unique person and before  you will  know  what is happening you will find yourself winning already.
  Some people are born great while so are born to achieve  greatness,  if you are not born  with a silver spoon in your mouth,  does that  implies that you  are bound to  fail, hell no! I think best way to  break away  from the  jink of poor background  is just becoming  tired of poverty and lack, and that will give you enough zeal  to wake up and work out of poverty.
 Do you know that everywhere you  finds yourself is a good  group,  the only thing  you need  is to  discover  the problems  of people  there and looking for  a genuine  means of solving them. 
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So I want to  charge you to  stand up  and take your life in your hands,  face your fears, build your confidence, accept yourself esteem,  break the jink of background  and make use of your  available environment, be rest assure  then that you are destined to win.