As humans beings  we all have that kind of  specific things that get under our skin and they truly annoy us very much,  the prompt says what annoys you as a person , well there are alot of things that annoys we humans and let me just give three according to this prompt.

The first thing that seriously annoys me is when people that have poor financial planning and also poor  communication skills, alright picture this : someone ask to borrow money from me, Me  being understanding, I tell them I will need a few days to arrange  the money for them , Then just  barely 24 hours later, they are already urgently messaging me saying they need the money immediately because what they need it for is happening that very day, Well this Immediately frustrates me because they have  failed to mention this urgency before, It  now feels manipulative, as if they are trying to pressure me to giving them money with out  a proper notice. Do they think I have an endless supply of it? Or  do they imagine I  do pluck the  money from trees in my backyard? ....Well .Financial emergencies are understandable, but the poor planning joined with dying minute demand shows  lack of respect for my time and also my  resources.

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The second thing that really gets me annoyed  is procrastination for  both  myself and for  others too, I find it very frustrating when people (including myself) postpone tasks that could have been  easily completed right away, Why would you  delay something that could be crossed off the list immediately? That presentation that is due for next week?  Why not you  start it today rather than now cramming it the night before?.....  The email that you need to respond to?  You just take five minutes now instead of letting it sit in your inbox for many days. Procrastination just creates unnecessary stress and also often results in plenty work. It's a habit that wastes time and energy.

The third thing that deeply annoys me is when women do not establish their independence before marriage and consequently find themselves in some how controlling relationships. I have  seen too many women rush into marriages without first of all  developing their own sense of identity, their career, or even  financial independence, And then  problems arise when their husbands begin to dictate every aspect of their lives. It is really frustrating to see women trapped in this kind relationship where they are treated like subordinates rather than partner, I strongly believe that establishing your personal "standing" in life  your values, career, education, and financial independence  is very important before entering any marriage. 

These things that annoys me might be specific, but I believe they do touch on universal themes of respect, responsibility, and also  self-worth. The financial boundary issues do  reflects how important it is to respect others resources and communicate honestly. My annoyance with procrastination highlights the value of taking initiative and responsibility for your own actions. And my frustration with women entering unequal marriages stems from my belief in the importance of self-sufficiency and mutual respect in relationships.

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