Qualities that I Look for in Girlfriend Material

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Qualities that I Look for in Girlfriend Material
The first thing I look for is GOOD LOOKS. I don’t mean to be superficial... It’s just that women who don’t take care of themselves physically are going to neglect themselves in other areas as well. I don’t need them to be models, although that doesn’t hurt either, but it’s not important to me because I’m not looking for the approval of my peers.
 
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I’d say the next thing I look for is a good sense of humor. I could care less how smart they are academically. They can be dumb as a doorknob, but if they are cute, nice, and love to laugh, then I usually have a place in my heart (and my bed) for them. 

For the sense of humor part, I test them by telling extremely crude, dirty jokes that are “degrading” to women. If they become offended, then they need to go and be offended somewhere else. Because the only thing that causes people to be offended is the Ego. The heart can never be offended. If they get all offended and behave like angry feminists, well my view is that if they are so quick to assume that I am ill-intentioned, it must mean THEY ARE ILL-INTENTIONED. If you’re a nice, down-to-earth guy, and people accuse you of being arrogant and malicious, it’s because they are projecting their stuff onto you. And don’t even try getting them to understand this fact. They simply won’t get it. 

The third thing I want is for them to be FEMININE. So many women in our society tend to reject their feminine side, or Yin. It’s kind of sad. To my mind, feminine qualities mean they are very loving, nurturing, PLEASERS. I LIKE GIVERS. I like women who want to please me, and who show a lot of affection and appreciation. They need to be appreciative because I tend to spoil my girls and love them beyond anything they’ve ever experienced. If they can’t show a little appreciation, then they need to go be miserable in somebody else’s life.

Some people go, “Well you like pleasers because you want to use and control and take advantage of women’s generosity because you’re so arrogant.” What these people don’t realize is THAT is a pretty arrogant and presumptuous thing to say. Once again, they are projecting their own messed up reality onto me. I like pleasers because I am a pleaser. 

The fourth quality is high-vibration level. To me this means they come from the heart, rather than from fear. In means they are spiritually aware, which means NOT IN DENIAL. All non-awareness is simply ignorance and denial, and fear-based.
 
I like younger women in the 21 to 28 range. Why? Besides having nice tight asses, it's because it’s much easier to develop a student/teacher relationship with them. I am happiest when in relationships with women who want to learn from me. I’ve spent the last seventeen years of my life learning about sex, spirituality, and relationships, so I have a lot of things I can teach them. 

Now, women who “come from the heart” love meeting guys like me, because we can talk about things like reincarnation, the soul, Karma, Dharma, ghosts, energy, and love. Even if they are just 21 years old and never read a book in their life, I can talk to them about the metaphysical stuff and they just eat it up and beg for more.

What I absolutely do not tolerate:

* Women who don’t like animals. 
* Women who don’t like children.
* Women who don’t like nature.
* Women who don’t like themselves.
* Women who don’t like me.

They must be GIVERS, and not TAKERS.
  
Thanks for reading :)
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