How do we solve our problems when they are caused by the beliefs that we hold most dearly? How do we look in the mirror and admit that the core of what we believe is a lie, and the way we live our lives leads to the destruction of society?

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Are we willing to voluntarily scrap all of it and change? Or, do we need to wait until it collapses and let the remnant sort it out?

I've been writing papers lately that explore some of the core issues we are dealing with as a society and the results of my research are quite damning. One example is the way we structure our families and marriages. That is a deeply held core belief, but it's all wrong. Another very damaging issue is the way we have pushed girls into a path of education and careers. It turns out that biologically we've condemned these women into less satisfying lives, destroyed marriage, and condemned our society to extinction.

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I did not know that delaying child birth into our 30s, using birth control pills, hospital drugged birthing (not natural births), and bottle feeding leads to sexual problems for men and women, divorce, infertility, and a cascading effect of social issues. It turns out, studies are showing, that if women don't have children in their 20's, plural, using natural child birth and extended periods of breast feeding, that they never develop proper bonds with their mate. In fact, using birth control pills leads young women to chose men that they later are dissatisfied with. Then they either cheat or seek divorce. The sociological term is "Extra-Pairing", seeking a mate they subconsciously feel is more suitable for breeding. The Law of Untended Consequences is ruthless and thousands of years of human development can't be "fixed" by deciding we don't like the way things were done for millennia. Only about two men out of ten are good candidates for mating and historically 60 - 70% of men didn't mate. Nature can't be fooled just because we don't like the truth.

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More to come in the paper on sex that I am almost done with.