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# HELLO
## How are you all
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The hardest thing in my life is when making choices and making decisions that concern my future and my life partner, in this case it requires further consideration and investigation, I don't want to make the wrong decision and I am aware that I have to accept all the risks and effects that arise from a decision I make 

Not all decisions we make will have a good effect on us but at least we must really consider it before making a decision, making the decision to marry the woman we love is the hardest thing because it will determine our future and the future of our children whether she will be a good mother and also be able to face all obstacles together, before I step into that stage and make a decision I don't want to play around in this matter so I have to investigate it properly, it doesn't stop there I also make some tests that she doesn't know about, after going through all the stages I can conclude a firm decision in my heart that I will marry her 

I can't be one hundred percent sure that she will continue to be a good person at least I have  trying to choose a good and best person for my partner, we can't predict what will happen in the future but I will accept all that and live it with a sincere heart and I will be satisfied with the results of my decision even if it is wrong then I will say oh this is the result of the decision I took before I will not regret it 

My principle before making a decision must really know in advance the effects that will arise from the decision, it is better if I should know in advance the origin of the problem and conclude all the data then a decision can be realized, the term is don't make decisions carelessly my local people often call it **bek meukeulheuh** 

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We often hear complaints from someone who has made the wrong decision, he regrets the decision he made very much and if he could go back to that time he would change his decision and he regrets it very much even becoming an emphasis in his mind that is always carried over in his conversation 

I think people like this are very stupid people why do I say that?  If only he took a moment to think before he made a decision, maybe he wouldn't complain about the results of his decision, the good and bad effects caused by a decision are risks that must be accepted, regretting a wrong decision that we make is not a solution to keep going, make mistakes and failures valuable lessons in our lives 

I look more at destiny that every decision I make with full consideration and also with caution is destiny and even if I find an effect that is not in accordance with my expectations, I will accept it wholeheartedly because for me everything has been determined by the Almighty so I don't have to think about all sorts of things and I am sure that all of that must have wisdom 

If my friends feel guilty about what has become my friends' decisions, maybe they can go back to the root of all the problems that everything has been destined but don't forget to be careful in making a decision 

<sub> That's my post today, thank you for everything, see you later 
Regards @yuliadi </sub> 

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