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I feel compelled to write this post because I cannot believe the audacity some males have that choose to slide in those sneaky DMs on my Discord or Steemit.chat, obviously wanting more than just friendship.

Worst of all, THEY SPAM ME WITH A POST AT THE SAME TIME! 

### THE SHEER CHEEKYNESS OF IT! 

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I’ve even had it that I started just chatting to a guy and he was getting a little intense about it, and I clearly told him that I was NOT interested in this way of connecting with someone. 
And he had the fucking balls to tell me that I should re-think the way I present myself online! 

**Wait wait what???** 

I would somehow understand it if I was putting photos of myself in a bikini or even naked.

But I am not. AT ALL. 

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So thanks dude for trying to rub your insecurities and inappropriate behaviour on me like it was my problem, but nope, it ain’t me.
 It definitely is you.
And you do not like the fact that I called you out on it.
When essentially all I am doing is just pointing out the truth. 

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But anyway, the point of writing this post is this.

## STEEMIT IS NOT A DATING SITE. 

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I am sure there are sub-spaces within Steemit that you can find the love of your life.
Or your next casual fling in the city next to you.

But essentially, this isn’t the platform that you go out hunting for women on. 

Or men.
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## There is so much more to find here. The potential is huge. You can actually really make friends. Find your voice. And make some good money while you are enjoying yourself. 
## Plus you can be part of a huge group of pioneers who are striving to make the best of themselves and for the world.

### Woah, ain’t that a lot better than being an inappropriate creep? 

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Time to rethink why you are on here dear. 

Here’s to really being part of a community.
Here’s to calling out on inappropriate behaviour.

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BIG love,

Ashley

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