<h3><center> Our parents always believe they have the reason why they will always have the last word taking as an excuse "The stubbornness and the rebelliousness" by which everything happens as we grow.</center></h3>

>*I remember that as a child they always scolded me, they told me not to answer and to respect, sometimes when I was going out with my friends I had to ask permission from both, and Papa always told me the one that commands is your Mom "she is the one who decides "and she told me tell her Pope, I always remember that, when I wanted to say something in a discussion or something, I said you do not think and shut up jejeje*<br/><br/>

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One of the most common excuses of parents is "these guys think they know more than one who has lived more than them." I think that parents take this type of attitude because they fear losing control of their children in the rebellion stage, it is like a power struggle, children do not want to lose their freedom and parents do not want to lose their authority, it is a This situation is very common in families where the children have to do what the parents impose on them and where they only hear this phrase "Here is what I say and do" some parents have very drastic rules like checking the phone to their children, check the social network conversations, scolding newspapers for arriving 15 minutes late, becoming a little asphyxiating limiting the freedom of their children.<br/><br/><br/>


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<h1> Personal opinion</h1><br/>


I think that parents should set clear rules from the beginning according to the needs of parents and without limiting the freedom of their children, since adolescents also have many needs, if they get to see the whole problem always comes when parents they think that they should impose rules of authority for good or bad, for me it is right to educate their children, to understand them, to accept their opinions being coherent and looking for agreements that do not break the respect towards the family.

Parents should put aside that behavior of superiority and try to dialogue with their children, because sometimes you feel a little beat and that type of behavior leads to rebellion as the teenager grows, I think they do not have that reflect on their children the problems they had in their adolescence, if their parents mistreated him does not have to do the same with their children and not give him the freedom to establish a dialogue.


<h1>Some advices</h1>

* Orient their children in their decisions, do not decide for them to dialogue and listen to their opinions.
* Be supportive, to a certain extent.
* Listen to your children and make yourself heard too.
* Intervene in the lives of your children when you think your decision puts them at risk.
* Give a little confidence to your children, if they fall let them get up, do not oppress them because that only fueled their fear, give them confidence and nourish their self-esteem.
* A 10-year-old son should be listened to and respected in the same way as a 20-year-old, do not give preference to decision making among their children, just because of the age difference.

<h1>Sometimes for children</h1>

* Decide that you want and do not, develop your own criteria of life and not be influenced by peers.
* Understand the situation and responsibility of your parents to protect and care for them first.
* Listen to your parents, take advice and accept when they say "NO" because you can be right and be right.


<center><h1>Learn to listen to your children remember that the most important thing is the family and be united</h1></center>

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<center>[Source](https://eldiariony.com/2017/01/21/aprende-a-escuchar-a-tus-hijos-2/)</center>