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We believe a lot of bull crap in our lives! Here are some things that you need to stop believing.

# There is one pathway to success #
Many of us are raised on the belief that success is having lots of education, Going to college, Getting Married, Having children and owning a house.

- Success may involve moving up the corporate latter. Making more money over time, Competing against everyone else to get that next promotion. 
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This is garbage! 
There is more than one pathway to success. For example instead of focusing on that "steady" paycheck, Starting your own business definetly has its benefits. Besides when you compete with everyone in the same company for a particular job, Then you are competing with more people then if you were to pick out a great niche to start your own business. 

Having kids, Owning a home, ever since I was a child, This hasn't been my definition of success. This type of "American Dream" was never appealing to me. I always wanted more freedom and adventure, Which having kids, A steady job, And a house can somewhat limit that freedom. 

Also, many people follow their family, Or their friends when defining success for their lives. This can be harmful in the long run when you wake up and realize you didn't get what you wanted out of your life. That you ended up doing everything that your friends and family wanted to do instead. 

You need to ask yourself, What is the definition of success for you! And go with that! 
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# Stop Holding Off On Your Dreams! #
This is one of my biggest pet peeves...
I ask people what they want to do in life, And they tell me, I ask them WHEN WILL they go through with it, and I hear the same assortments of answers...
"I Don't Know"
" Maybe in 5 years or so."
"Maybe in 10 years or so."

Or My sister's answer.
"I'll do it when I'm 40."
*She's 22 right now*

She says that to everything Haha. It sounds like when she turns 40 she's going to be CRAZY busy! You know writing a book, traveling, etc.

I don't mean to sound morbid. But imagine it's your last day of life. What would you want to accomplish?
What are some things you want to do or see?
So many people hold off on their dreams When they should dive in head first.
I see so many people holding off on traveling, And doing fun things because their boss won't give them the day off.
Especially at my age, Early/the mid-twenties. This is probably the last of our "Lesser responsibility" part of our lives, Some of us aren't married yet, And don't have kids. Why not do that traveling, And other fun stuff we want to do. When people give me the "I Don't know" answer, I know for a fact, They will never do the thing that they wanted. Unless some amazing opportunity comes along. 

Want to write a book? Get started, Even if you only spend 10 minutes a day writing. Do. Something. Now.

My Goal is to travel....
So I've been looking into woofing, Growing my Businesses, Saving my money and investing, and I'm about to apply for my passport, My goal is to start traveling more frequently within a year or two.

If you want to do something in life sometimes its about the daily practice, It's about the consistency. 
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# You Will NEVER Be READY! #
This is related to the holding off; People like to wait until they are "ready." What does that even mean? When you get so comfortable with the idea of trying something new that it comes with no effort? 

That's RARE! If not impossible! 
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Was I ready to quit my job?
Heck no! I was shaking and losing my mind; I was terrified. How can I sustain myself with my businesses? 
But guess what?
I did it.

You are NEVER ready for anything, And if you wait until you are ready for things, you'll never get anywhere. 
Life is scary.
Newness is scary.
Everything is scary. 
Take a deep breath and DO IT!

## We overthink things, Which makes us more scared ##
One reason we often feel "Not Ready" Is because we overthink things to the point of feeling like nothing good will come out of it. Almost like we are guaranteed negative results no matter what we do. 

But the negative results are often blown out of proportion, and they do not happen. And if they do happen, It's often worth the cost of trying something new! You'll never get anywhere you want to go in life unless you try new things. 

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