「生活」钢琴路上的矛盾与纠结
hive-105017·@mrspointm·
0.000 HBD「生活」钢琴路上的矛盾与纠结
<liketuimages> <center>     </center> </liketuimages> 在我们家,每天你一定会看到这样的场景。Sheya坐在钢琴前,手指摆放在琴键上,弹着不太熟练的乐曲,听起来断断续续,而她的妈妈就是我在旁边皱着眉头,时不时地指出她的错误,这时她一脸不耐烦,紧接着是我那拔高的音量训斥,她一阵沉默,最后哇哇大哭。 我对于她学习钢琴这件事情挺矛盾的,当初只是为了培养她对音乐的热爱,从中获取快乐和熏陶,并希望她在以后的生活学习中如遇到什么消极情绪或者压力之类的,可以找到一个排泄的方式,所以从始至终我也没让她去考级,这已经是降低要求了,我只跟老师说她只要学到能给看着谱子熟练弹奏歌曲就行啦! 可理想很丰满,现实很骨感。 Sheya从去年暑假开始接触钢琴,至今已经快一年了,到现在她对于钢琴是完全提不起兴趣,一味地觉得枯燥和辛苦,但凡当天上完钢琴课,让她回家练一下,她就特别抗拒,软磨硬泡让她弹一会儿,换来的又是我们之间的不愉快。 练琴这件事情本来就要日复一日的坚持,孩子太小很难主动去做,只有靠大人监督,认音也会慢很多,有些知识性的东西需要去识记,练习越多,肌肉记忆就有了,而且小时候学习的话,手型会比较漂亮,不像我现在,弹奏乐曲总是折指。 我有几次都狠下心来干脆就放弃吧,可老师给我的反馈却让我特别纠结,目前已经学完了两本小汤,进度比有些同龄的小朋友快。我们要是半途而废的话好可惜啊,之前的付出全都白费了,以后再拾起就更难了。 之前缴费的课上完了,老师让我们考虑一下再说,我回来跟点哥商量了一下,还是决定让她继续学。 每天保证半小时的练琴,老师说以后会教些流行曲子,这样可以边弹边唱,同时我也得尽量克制自己的情绪,耐心地纠正,不然亲子关系再度紧张,我们之间又要爆发“大战”。 在孩子学钢琴这条路上,我始终是矛盾的,一方面我在用力push她,另外一方面又怀疑自己做的这一切是都值得,不知道接下来还会遇到什么,万一哪天就突然喜欢上了钢琴呢,也只能是走一步看一步吧,想那么远也没用,永远都是计划赶不上变化。 --- For the best experience view this post on [Liketu](https://liketu.com/@mrspointm/62ewqs)
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