No one is perfect neither do me nor anyone else. Everybody has some kind of missing chapter from their life. ***Be it peace, money, health, body or family, friends it could be anything***. And still many people assume themselves as they are the perfect one. People are in habit of making fun of others irrespective of looking at themselves. I have been through some gruelling phase since childhood due to my body shape and even sometimes now as well, but gradually now I amd habitual to all such talking point and give a damn. 


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But yes I lived a lonely shaming life for many years and that really affected me somewhere at the back of mind. I have been ***a fatty boy*** since my childhood. It does not took *a cute chubby adorsble baby to transform into a fatty teenage boy.* What people used to call adorable now started to see the same baby as ***a fatty boy***. I sometime laugh at people habits of making perception so easily and so fast. It left even the super computers far behind in giving output. 

***Chubby baby, to fatty boy... to bulky lad...*** the transformation was very swift and fast. But each of those phases has been quite painful. **Every time I fell neglected.** During each of the phases I find different set of people making fun of my body someway or the other. I never been overweight, but people think my body is of no use as I was carrying some extra baggage. 

In all those time I never felt any kind of issue with my body. *I can run but not as fast as others, I can play, but was not quick as others I used to dance but not like others.* Everyone have their limitation and so does mine. Slowly people started to make fun of me. I even been bullied at some point of time. I hardly have any friend to share my meantal ordeal. *I grown up with hating my body.* At one point I stopped even looking at myself assuming it to be a fatty bag. ***School, colleges, offices...*** there were always someone to make fun of my body. But at no point of time I felt any issue with my body. I can do every work of mine and never been dependent on others. But wanted a change of subject for myself. 


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I never wanted to go gym and make **unnatural** efforts to transform my natural shape. I saw gym people taking lot of supplements, and does weighing exercise to transform their body but I never supports such things. I belive, **better not to play with nature**.

#### The little transformation.

At certain point humans minds start to accept the things said to them. After years of backlash and negection, I started assuming myself ***fatty & bulky***. But I never wanted to change myself only for the sake of people. I was happy what I had and what i have now. But one day, during my office days, i felt little uncomfortable, I felt little issue with my body. I felt overweight, and then I realize I need to shed some weight. It was then I started doing physical workouts. I started walking, then running and slowly doing stretching. In a matter of few month, I again back to myself, even though I still have fatty body. But that does not mean I am not capable of doing anything.

#### Belive in yourself & family

Physical fitness is important, but forcing someone by making fun is not the right things. There are so many people around who are not perfect. **Some are underweight, some are overweight, some have extra toned body that unable to walk and so on**. If we start making fun of each of them, then it becomes difficult to live happily. Many people are in habit of carrying away with people words and took some extreme steps to change their body look. But I belive, ***be content with what we have.*** Rather then listening to others, **listen to yourself first, and then to your family**. In all my year of turbulence, my family never asked me to bring change in my body. They never said a single word for my body. And that matters a most. Belive in yourself and keep doing what you can do best.


#### Body shaming

**Body shaming** is not the good things to do. Either it be yours own or others. It is very common in the society. **Our body is the natural set up** that we get, we can bring alteration but it may bring damages as well. ***We all know if we play with nature, we have to face its wrath***. It is good to try maintain a good body fat ratio. But doing extreme stuffs or making your body suffer only for the sake of other people may affect the body badly. I have seen people being carried away and now bed ridden due to some physical injury.

In all my years, I listen many words, but I remain content with myself. When I experienced certain issues, I went back to normal physical workout and it helped me. **Let people keep talking, mind your own business.**


## Peace !!

### Namaste @steemflow