最近发生了很多事，不尽人意但还是必须感恩。尤其是有了年纪，身边的亲朋戚友一个接一个离开。自己虽然不愿意承认，但屈指一算原来中年危机就是不知不觉中降临的。所以，必须由想法来改变看待事情的重点。


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咱们工作上的大佬谢总监上个星期突发事故直接入院躺平。说脸部一半失去知觉，众同事们也开始猜测和怀疑为何他会得症。经过了一番检查，发现原来唾沫囊发炎，导致内部神经被挤压而影响了他半边面部神经。听起来好像没啥大碍，不过这种事当然只有当事人最滋味。我们旁人怎么说也只不过纸上谈兵。发炎啊？吃消炎药不就好了哦？还不行吗？做手术切除呀。

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院方说，手术的风险也不低。一不小心切除时切到神经线，以后很可能就会面部半边瘫痪。谢总当然不肯，我们也理解这手术风险不低。一旦错手，很可能以后左边嘴巴合不起来，还会经常流口水呢。不知不觉，拉叔一直陪伴在谢总身边听他倾诉着到大半夜。

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话说，谢总是拉叔去年辞职后把我收留下来这家公司的大恩人。虽然目前的工作也不理想，不过能有一份工作就不错了。我老哥一个说法，出来捞总比在家踩缝纫机好。以前拉仔听不懂这意思，后来知道原来意思是在家摇脚没事干。谢总对拉叔期望也很高，所以拉叔更不能辜负大佬的鼓励和支持。


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拉叔当然不想谢总有事，只是自己年纪也不小了，其实跟谢总也差不多。知道他出事了，拉叔马上买了烟，薯片和一些水果去拜访。这种事总不能等他出院时再吩咐他多留几天等我拜访了才出来吧？

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