I learned to trust in God alone and not man.

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I learned to trust in God alone and not man.
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**I learned to trust in God alone and not man.**
When you want to plan wedding always carry God along , I have my reasons
Being a man is not an easy task, especially when it comes to planning a wedding. When my wife and I embarked on this journey, we faced numerous obstacles and encountered people who doubted our ability to make it happen. However, looking back on those days, I am grateful for the support of our loved ones and the divine intervention that prevented us from being put to shame, it was not an easy thing to achieve.
Planning a wedding is a significant undertaking, and as a man, it often comes with unique challenges. Many people around us looked down on our decision, believing it was impossible to achieve success given the circumstances we faced. However, we remained determined to prove them wrong and make our dream wedding a reality and I won't lie we almost canceled it, but God really did help us, the funniest the people we taught are going to turn up for us are the people who failed us while the once we looked down on were who once who really helped us 

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In our society, there are certain expectations placed upon men when it comes to weddings. Traditionally, men are typically seen as less involved in the planning process, with the bulk of the responsibilities falling on the bride. This perception can make it challenging for men to assert themselves and take an active role in shaping their special day, but thanks to God I did not turn back on the plans because it got to some certain time people I had never seen in my life, I mean some village people started requesting for things like, ball for the youths and so on, it was very annoying, but who needed to have their wedding? It is us.

Weddings can be financially demanding, and as a man, there is frequently an expectation to bear a significant portion of the financial burden. This can create added pressure and stress, as finding the necessary funds to cover various expenses becomes a priority. Balancing these financial responsibilities while ensuring the wedding meets our expectations was no easy feat. The people, I really do hope in them that no matter what, they would assist with something huge that actually failed. What I will say here is: "In everything we want to achieve let's always put God first and any other things can follow, man can fail.

One of the most challenging aspects of planning our wedding was dealing with the doubt and skepticism from others. Many people doubted our ability to overcome the obstacles we faced, which only fueled our determination to succeed. We had to remain focused on our vision and block out the surrounding negativity.

When I think back on those times, I am appreciative of the help we got and the fortitude to stick with it. We were able to disprove the doubters and plan a lovely wedding that showcased our devotion and love. Despite the difficulties faced as somebody organizing a wedding, it was a testimonial to the strength of tenacity and the value of believing in ourselves.
Being a man in the process of planning a wedding is not without its difficulties. It requires strength, determination, and the ability to rise above societal expectations and doubts. Despite the challenges, it is possible to create a memorable and meaningful wedding that celebrates love and commitment. In the end, the journey is worth it, and the sense of accomplishment is immeasurable.
All I want to say is thank you to almighty God for all the backups.


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